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Interested in individual or couples’ support?
I offer sessions for those seeking to move beyond patterns of disconnection and toward more conscious forms of relating and selfhood. For more information, learn how we can work together here.
Workshops
Facilitated experiences for organizations and the public, designed to build trust, deepen understanding, and support meaningful human connection. Grounded in psychology and philosophy, and centered on how we relate to one another.
Listen to Hint of Trauma
From attachment styles to the myth of closure, let’s unpack how love, loss, and connection shape who we are and how we can re-author our stories. Listen now and join the conversation.
I’m Aubrey Aust, a relational philosopher, coach, and researcher at NYU studying relational psychology and philosophy.
My work sits at the intersection of philosophy, theory, and the nervous system.
We aren’t taught how to express, let alone identify, what we need relationally. Through live workshops, online resources, and relational coaching, I help people discover and explore the language of authentic connection to create the safety, depth, and fulfillment we crave in our interpersonal relationships.
Learn more about me here.
I am interested in improving my relationship(s) with…
Partners
Love is not just a feeling — it’s a skill that can be practiced. Explore ideas on communication, conflict, and building safety in intimate relationships here.
Community
From chosen family to everyday networks, communities shape our relational lives. Explore the psychology of belonging, visibility, and collective connection here.
Myself
The relationship with self shapes every other connection. Find reflections and practices for cultivating self-awareness and understanding here.
Office Hours
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