I operate under the fundamental understanding that we are put on this earth to connect. There are many ways to do that. I’m here to explore them.

My work is grounded in political theory, particularly Arendtian thought, with a focus on desire, power, and relationality. I’ve long been interested in how we come to know ourselves through others and in the subtle dynamics that emerge within intimacy.

I am especially drawn to the question of how we co-exist: how we are shaped by one another, how relationships transform us, and how we learn to love.

Just like the human experience, my work is multifaceted, nuanced, and difficult to explain at the dinner table. I work with individuals and couples in depth-oriented sessions focused on relational patterns, desire, and self-understanding. I host salons and workshops exploring intimacy and identity in community. And I explore these questions publicly through my podcast, Hint of Trauma, and on a variety of outlets shown below.

To the curious and compassionate, welcome. You’ve found your place. I am so very grateful you are here.

With care,

Aubrey

B.A. Political Theory, Pomona College | M.A. Relational Psychology and Philosophy, NYU | Co-Active Practitioner Certified | Gottman Level II | 200 hr YTT